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Carl Selesky
The Selesky Law Firm, LLP
6303 Beverly Hill, Suite 1000
Houston, TX 77057-6501 PH:713.780.9595
Fax: 713.784.8351
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Houston
Divorce Lawyer,
CARL
SELESKY
Marriage has been around since the earliest of civilizations,
dating back to ancient times. The reasons for getting married
over the years have differed, fulfilling various social and personal
functions. The Catholic Church, classifying marriage as a sacred
union, heavily influenced the divorce laws that were created
in most Western countries and spoke of marriage as an unbreakable
covenant made between a man and a woman.
As times have changed, the United States now currently has the
highest divorce rate in the world, with roughly half of all marriages
ending in divorce. Every year there are approximately 2.4 million
marriages in the U.S. and 1.2 million divorces (based on 1997 Census numbers). Family laws have
changed over the years, with easier divorces in the 1960s believed
necessary for toxic relationships. While the loosening of family
laws have been blamed for the surge in divorces, studies have
shown the ability to get out of an unhealthy relationship has
allowed for a better balance in power resulting in a decrease
in domestic violence.
The number one thing married couples argue about is money, followed
by children. If seeking a divorce, Carl Selesky understand the
legal rights and options available and will seek dissolution of
the marriage while preserving the best interests of all parties
involved. For more information on Houston family law, please contact
us to confer with Mr. Selesky, a Houston divorce lawyer.
Changing divorce laws may promote healthier lives
Over the years, looser divorce laws have been blamed for destroying
families and resulting in the surge of divorces sought, but a
study published by the National Bureau of Economic Research found
that when California passed a no-fault divorce law in 1970 the
divorce rate jumped but then later fell back to its old level
and ended up falling even below that. The same pattern was found
to occur in other states that loosened their laws as well, and
favorable trends also were found to happen alongside it. (Baltimore Sun, April 2, 2004 "Surprise: No-fault divorce may strengthen marriage," by Steve Chapman.)
Fewer women committed suicide and husbands or other intimate partners
murdered fewer women. In addition, there was a decrease in domestic
violence for both men and women compared with states that had the
stricter divorce laws. The ability to create a more equal balance
of power because of changes in divorce laws are positive, but the
need to protect children from the challenges created because of
broken homes must continue to be a priority. Please contact
us to confer with Mr. Selesky, a Houston divorce attorney.
Contact the Houston divorce lawyer
There are countless mistakes that can be made in the divorce
process that a Houston divorce lawyer will avoid. Divorces can
be an extremely stressful period in life and by trying to move
along the process a spouse can agree to things that are not in
their best interests or the best interests of the children. Even
in the most amicable splits, a spouse could end up with great
financial losses otherwise avoided had an experienced divorce
attorney been consulted. Please contact
us to reach Carl Selesky, an experienced Houston divorce
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Houston,
Texas Alimony laws difficult to meet
Consideration for alimony in the state of Texas can occur in just
two circumstances.
- If a spouse is convicted of family violence.
- The marriage was ten years or longer.
If family violence is accused, the date of the petition for divorce
must have occurred within two years. The spouse seeking alimony
must show that he/she does not have sufficient resources to live
within reasonable parameters. Alimony payments cannot exceed three
years unless the ex spouse has physical or mental disabilities
that does not allow him/her to be self-supporting. The most a judge
can order for alimony is either $2500.00 a month or 20 percent
of the paying spouse's average monthly gross income, depending
on which is the lesser amount.
Please contact
us to confer with Mr.
Selesky, a Houston divorce lawyer.
Child custody is determined by courts when couples
are not in agreement
When parents are unable to agree on child custody, the courts
will determine if joint legal custody should be granted based on
if the children will gain beneficial physical, psychological, or
emotional exposure from both parents. Courts will decide if the
two parents are able to prioritize the needs of the children and
make decisions based on their best interests.
While the relationship between the two parents did not work, there
must be the ability to encourage a positive relationship between
the children and the opposite parent. Joint legal custody also
considers how much of a role, if any, the parents had in child
rearing prior to filing for the divorce. There are other relevant
factors in deciding child custody matters that can differ based
on the particular case. Read
more.
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